How To Emotionally Bond With A Man

Men also need to express and share their emotions with their partners. It often seems the opposite, but don't be fooled by male poses or bravado. What happens is that, in general, men have a harder time admitting this need because they have been educated to be strong and independent. The message they have received is that a "true" man cannot feel alone, sad, scared or in need because that is "girls" or homosexuals. Labels often limit relationships, especially when you follow the game and are not able to see beyond appearances.

You must understand that, although men and women feel differently, their desire for love and connection is as great as yours or more. This is a key point when it comes to turning your relationship with a man into something more than an adventure or a superficial romance. These tips will help you.

· Do not try to solve their problems. If you tell them it is to talk about them and share (does it not happen to us the same?). Be careful, also, not to behave like a mother or a teacher, but as an equal. Don't suffocate your partner by forcing him to open his heart or overwhelming him with attention. Let it be something that happens naturally. For them, talking about their feelings is more difficult. Even recognizing those feelings is difficult. Therefore, you should leave the room and help open it.

· Show him that by your side he can be free and authentic. For this, the best thing you can do is be free and authentic too. Show him that you don't want a relationship with emotional barriers, games or blackmail. That you want to relate from honesty so that both can learn, grow, know each other well. This fluidity is only possible when the two take off their masks and behave as they really are.

· Accept him as he is. Do not make the mistake, so common, of wanting to change or expect that over time it becomes what you want. If you accept him for what he is, he will feel safe by your side and will open to you, sharing with you even his fears or aspects of his life of which he feels ashamed. If once he has shown you his most vulnerable side you show him that you continue to accept him, the bond between the two will become very strong.

· Show him that you admire him. Every man wants to be "famous" for the woman he loves. Live your small or big successes with him, ask him about his things, leave him space to give himself to his hobbies. Pay attention to the details of his life and those things he shares with very few people or just with you. That way, at your side you will feel special, important, clothed ... As if you were the home to which he returns every night.

· Encourage him to express what he feels for you. In order to be aware of our feelings, we need to express them. Therefore, your partner has to take steps to commit to you. Tell you things that make you feel special, praise you, show you how good it feels by your side and, at the right time, tell you that they love you. You must also be generous and invest in yourself. All this makes their feelings for you to settle, gain body. If it doesn't compliment you if it doesn't try to make you happy, be careful. You could be giving too much in exchange for too little. And remember that balance in a relationship is essential to make you both happy.